The natural process of the growth of a new baby, from conception to
birth, and the care of the motherbaby does not need to be considered
a medical event, but rather, a holy, sacred time in the lives of a new
family. It is my deep longing that the women of the world and their
families come to understand that the seasons of pregnancy, journey of
birth, and motherbaby moon time, are indeed profoundly spiritual events.
Experiencing this natural process to the fullest, with spiritual awareness,
brings an added depth and understanding to a new mother, and influences
her mothering, for the rest of her life.
Attitudes and beliefs will affect how a woman births and how she cares
for her baby. Giving this experience over to the medical care industry
effects how a woman feels about herself both as a woman, and as a mother.
The way a mother birthed and cared for baby will be deeply embedded
in that child's way of being. Women are born with the inborn ability
to grow, birth, and care for their babies. My dream is that women do
trust, or learn to trust and believe in, the great design of what nature
has intended.
Women, by being born women, intuitively know how to do this work. Natural
mothers, and the midwives that attend them, know and trust the entire
process. Judy Luce, a midwife from Vermont, writes on this idea in an
article, The Knowing Body and Remembering Heart,
A midwife assures a woman that she does "know" how to give
birth; it is genetically encoded in each of her cells. It is a "memory"
that came through her mother and her mother's mother and before; the
umbilical cord of knowledge and inspiration coils back in time and into
the future in the birth of our daughters. (Luce, Midwifery Today, Winter
2004, p.19).
It is possible that future generations of women could forget how to
be natural mothers if their mothers before them had given themselves
over to the medical world. The life we live becomes encoded in the deepest
parts of our being. In the words of medical intuitive and author Caroline
Myss, "Our biography becomes our biology" (www.myss.com, 2004).
We must carefully consider what is lost when mothers give themselves
and their babies to the Western medical way of thinking. In much of
the United States the cesarean rate is 27% of all births. The epidural
rates are skyrocketing. We are in danger of forgetting how to birth
our own babies, simply because we are being convinced that we aren't
able to do it, or that we shouldn't want to fully experience these sacred
seasons of our lives as mothers.
Our culture has a campaign to "Say No to Drugs." And yet,
a majority of the babies are born with drugs flowing through their bodies.
Is there any wonder that there are many health issues with our children
when they were bottle fed, vaccinated, and fed a less than optimally
nutritious diet? Is there any wonder that many children lack emotional
health when they were not held closely to their mothers as infants and
were not listened to?
When a mother chooses to become a natural mother she chooses to connect,
or reconnect, with biological order. The wisdom of nature and natural
process are her guides. This ancient knowledge comes to a natural mother
through her intuition.
A midwife supports and trusts the mother's intuitive knowledge. Aside
from being a watchful eye and guardian through the seasons of pregnancy
and motherbaby moon time, a woman's midwife is her teacher and friend.
Together, the mother, her family, and their midwife walk the journey
together. After all, it has only been since the 1920s that babies were
born in hospitals. Women have done quite well in growing, birthing,
and caring for their babies throughout human history.